Tuesday, February 24, 2009

The Killyug

I am sometimes amused at how difficult humans find to be human. But then perhaps retention of fundamentals requires very hard work. Else people wouldn’t have been struggling to preserve their culture and so on.

I sometimes wonder how on earth people can be so artificial. Is there no cost involve when one behaves unlike humans in spite of being human.

How can people so casually commit crimes which are so brutal? How can they be capable of inflicting so much of pain. Does it not affect them? Does it not make them feel giddy?

Now days murder seems to have become a favorite crime. Kill whomever you find. Relatives , friends , lovers , enemies , strangers , people who are good , and those one finds bad. Just kill . I can’t stand the sight of blood ;movies containing violence leave me disturbed ; and here there are people whom nothing perturbs. Nor helpless screams , crying eyes or strong character , groaning faces or dying bodies. Nothing. Nothing at all. Being human becomes so impossible for them. They grin when they see people hurt and laugh on seeing them die. Others’ sadness gives them extreme pleasure and they inflict even more pain. Killing is not good enough for them. Their brutality does not allow them to be happy with only this. They need to break bones , chop limbs , split necks , pull out eyes to get orgasmic levels of satisfaction.

I wonder what these people are made of. I wonder what they were meant to be. They seem to be beasts trapped in a human body. They don’t seem human. Or is it that the word ‘human’ or the term ‘being human’ will soon be out of vogue and use.

Do we even stop to wonder whether all this is the way God meant it to be? Or has God gone gravely wrong somewhere in his calculations, in his science, in his psychology. He gave us all a brain and a little , little heart. But why is it that man has started using the brain so much to think evil and has decided to not listen to the endless screams of the heart or conscience.

Where are we going? People talk about us living in the ‘Kalyug’. They say it has just begun and the future will be darker. If we keep moving at this speed we perhaps will become habituated to this darkness. In current times when crimes committed, we protest, we sympathize, we even feel perhaps. But in a day’s time we forget and move on. I wonder what meaning the term ‘move on’ will beyond a few years. It would perhaps imply ‘look, witness, don’t talk , don’t react and move on’ there will be times when people will kill openly on roads and stroll away grinning. On-lookers will do what they are best at. They will look and leave. The dead body will lie there unattended by humans. A car might run it over , a dog might come for its share and eagles’ for theirs. Once they are done with it, the left overs will be cleaned away the next morning by the garbage pickers. There will come a day when we will become so cold and emotionless. Just like these atrocities will not make us sad and angry, there would be no happiness to be felt anymore. We won’t smile and we won’t cry. Perhaps children , who are the apostles of virgin expressions, would have witnessed these atrocities to such an extent that their little minds and hearts would be scarred forever with these events and they would grow into adults who know not why they live or what purpose brings them to life. We are all waiting rather paving the way neatly for that kind of generation to come. Our closed eyes, scared and selfish selves, mum hearts will facilitate the coming of such humans. Perhaps then the other animals, whom we consider base and whose language we understand not, will call each other ‘humans’ to swear and insult.

Yes! We are laying the red carpet for such events to occur. Yes! We are.

Monday, April 21, 2008

CHILD OF STREETS

Was i born to die everyday?
Was i born to not live even one day?
I have fight to survive - every single day;
Streets are my home - that is where i stay.

No family , no friends,
No one to call my own;
Happiness is difficult to find,
I can't even borrow it on a loan.

The nights are long
And the days are tough;
A hungry stomach
And lots of ill luck.

Sometimes i beg, sometimes i don't;
I have many names
Given by people who pass by -
A beggar, a thief , a useless geek.

Sometimes i am scared
That the dogs might bite;
Sometimes i am abused
Sexually all night.
I am used; I am discarded;
As and when they want.
They throw me on the footpath,
After inflicting a lot of pain.

But i have to sustain
For I have to survive;
No safe home for me -
There is nowhere to hide;
Childhood is tumultuous for me -
No future to look forward to;
No school to go,
No people to talk you;
THe only game i play
Is the fight to survive everyday;
Uncared, unloved -
I am expected to live;
I am expected to grow -
In an environment
Where what what is love
I still don't know....
I have no desires,
No dreams to live for;
For i am only a Child of the streets -
ABANDONED and UNWANTED.

Imagine yourself in the Child's place.Would your feelings be similar if you found yourself in this state? Should we allow this Child to be treated this way? Shouldn't something be done?

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Thursday, October 05, 2006

As Kids see it.....

Some days back I was walking down the road with my young niece in the evening. It was Durga Puja time in kolkata. During this time there is a heavy traffic of people on road because many go pandal hopping.but even on such occasions, when people are in a festive mood there are goons moving around.since most well decorated pandals are overcrowded,some boys or men try their hand at groping female bodies.
Though the road we were walking down was not very crowded I asked my 10 year old neice to tell me immediately if anybody hurt her or did something to her.
It often happens that a girl child is abused but she is unable to speak about it because she does not understand s what was happening with her or simply due to shyness.since she was with me it was my responsibility to take care of her.
Then while we were returning home she told me
‘didi pata hai yeh ladke log na bahut gande hote hain.hamesha Dhaka mar ke jate hain.hamesha humlog kyun side honge.who log thik se kyun nahi chal sakte’(these boys are very mischevious.they always push us and go.why should we always move aside to prevent being touched?why cant they walk properly).
And trust me what she said was correct.most women would know this.you walk in a crowded place and you are liable to be touched at odd places by men who haven’t learnt to behave themselves.and such men escappe being punished because women prefer to accept this abuse quietly.men feel on being charged that they can give the excuse of the place being crowded.but hey!all you such me,women know the difference between an accidental touch and a deliberate dirty touch which reflects their lust.

Almost every woman must have faced a situation like this sometime in her life.imyself have faced such a situation.but girls and women please don’t keep mum about these things.men who do this are criminals and by supporting them we act as far greater criminals.this is because we help them in going on believeing that what they do is okay and noone would ever protest.they gather even more courage the next time they abuse a girl.do not let yourselves become criminals!and to all those men who love groping at public places there are just three words I have to say- GO TO HELL!!!

Friday, September 22, 2006

MY RAPIST

Oh God please!
Let this be a dream.
No!No!No!
Thats all I could scream;
I begged him to let me go
Tonight I am his victim,
I know!I know!
He pushes me against the wall
As from my eyes tears flow.
His face.His face -
From lust does glow.

His grip is tight
"Oh!Let me go!
Someone let me fight.."
I scream again
He slaps me hard
Giving me even more pain........

He digs his nails
Into my skin now;
I am struggling to escape,
But someone tell me how!
He bends down to kiss
My bleeding lips.
I wrestle with him
God! His hold tightens on my hips....

I cry, I weep
As on me he leaps;
I writhe in pain
But all in vain.
I scream, I shout
He seals my mouth....

Then descends a silence,
Deafning to my ears...
He walks out of room,
Leaving me in tears...

I lay on bed,
Sobbing for some more time...
I had been raped,
But that was not my crime....

I get up from bed
And shrugg off his dirt;
He had touched my body
But could not touch my heart...

I smiled to myself
Knowing fully well,
I had won that battle
And had travelled back from hell;
I had just defeated MY RAPIST.


-A poem dedicated to all women who had been wronged by men who are worse than beasts;women who did not succumb to this crime by allowing themselves to be treated like criminals;women who defeated their rapists by not allowing this incident to shatter their entire lives;women who refused to feel sorry for themselves;women who went through this hell and travelled back to normal lives;women who proved to be stronger than those men who proved to be only physically stronger- ALL THE TRUE WOMEN OF ALL TIMES....

DISABLED WOMEN

Well gender bias is not a new concept in the kind of society we dwell in.Women are 'supposed' to be weak physically,financially and in plenty other ways.Their most important work till date remains acting as a 'reproducing machine' and playing a second fiddle to their family members,especially their husbands.
As it is the abilities of women are highly underestimated by society.and if a woman has a certain impairement, God come to her rescue!Women with disabilities are disadvantaged.
this write-up is inspired by an article in a Kolkata's leading daily 'The Statesman'.What the writer states could not have been truer."Women and disabilities.Both words represent two concepts, a product of not just biology but social attitudes as well..........."
This artiicle specifically talks about women who suffer from some kind of disability.If a woman is disabled she,most generally, is dependent on her family and other relatives for almost everything.They,or more specifically the woman's husband become the decision makers in her life.the ways in which the society looks at people with disabilities,is itself an handicap for these women.they are treated as children,regarded as people incompetent enough to make their own decisions;Simply people lacking in intelligence.
another great problem is that women with disabilities are most often treated as 'non-sexual' and are not given any sex-educaton.hence,they are most vulnerable to sexual abuse.
it has also been seen that the police and court views these women as unsuitable witnesses,especially is these women have difficulty in communication.many a times when they report being abused,they are turned away by the police.
even today as we take pride in being a part of the 21st century there are families who see no reason why a female child should be educated.and educating a female is completely futile if she is disabled.
there are very few institutions which help disabled girls receive education.in China,where there are around 5 million disabled children aged between7 and 15 years only 6% go to school.it is extremely obvious that out of these 6% less than half are females.
Generally,schools disabled children are often termed as 'special schools' where these children learn to make straw mats,baskets,articles out of paper and so on.in such scools not only children suffer from inferiority complex but also the standard of instruction might be inferior.
a study of disabled girls,both in special and regular scools show that girls who were in mainstreamed at the school were more proficient and confident about themselves.
This is important to make sure that these girls,at a later stage in life, can atleast seek 'employment'.Employment without basic education is a virtual impossibility.
Often women are paid less for the same job as compared to their male counterparts.women with disabilities are treated as liabilities by their employers(if they at all get employment)and are paid even less than their unimpaired feamle counterparts and also disabled male counterparts.
women with disabilities are vulnerable at all stages of their lives because of two reasons-
(1) because they are 'WOMEN'; and
(2)because they suffer from from a 'DISABILITY'.

These women are often 'left out' of family interactions and community activities and are exposed to social stigma.this leads them to feel DEVALUED, ISOLATED and ASHAMED.

Is this fair?

Source: The Statesman
Editorial page
September 18,2006.

Monday, September 18, 2006

introducing this blog.........

just made this blog today.........one already exists.......but this one is specifically dedicated to all those people who suffer injustices in hands of society and other notorious elements...this is not only to project the helplessness of the victims but also the inactivity against the crimes and also the selfishness of the society as a whole...........i plan to emphasise on those incidents that we often come across in newspapers and news channels but ignore.........i am positive on reading this blog you wouldnt leave with a happy mind..........but i hope the anger that you will feel after reading these will atleast make you not only softer towards these victims but also help them live a better life.....................
you can ask me questions on my articles if you wish.....and leave your email address for the answers...............i ll try my best to reply as quickly as possible............
or you can mail at
shriya.beri@gmail.com
may God bless!